You can't love the head and hate the tale (#165).
This story might be interesting, but there is a very good lesson to learn about if you choose to live on the right path.
My story normally is for everyone ready to learn to make a better change/difference in life which I am such everyone wants.
But the question here is how many people are ready to take that challenge, especially when it's a very difficult one (hmm).
But today this story is going to most, especially for the youth to preside when it comes to marriage.
If you have reached that age of getting married, you want to get married but everyone who comes, works past leaving you single again.
Have you ever asked yourself why things went wrong when it came to your love life and ended just like that?
Guys let me tell you this, sometimes it is not black magic (witch), and you might be the reason for your problem.
There are a lot of reasons why you ladies try different relationships but still did not get married.
I am sure most ladies need this, it a form of advice but I am going to give one clear example. Let go.
There was this lady and this guy (Joe and Janet), they were in a serious relationship for the past four years.
They were going along very well with their relationship, with too much love and fewer problems with plenty of smiles on their faces.
Janet loves Joe in such a way that he never wants to see him go mad or feel sad, that is why she always tries her best to see him happy.
Joe feels the same and does exactly what will not hurt Janet too, they were both trying to prevent their relationship always.
Janet is so beautiful, many rich guys ask for her hand in marriage but always refused because of Joe.
Joe is a potential young man growing up, as an influential and outspoken person guy.
Job's parent loves their relationship so much the same as Janet's parent they always approve of their relationship.
The reason is because of what Joe says to his family about Janet, which is why his family chooses to love her.
The same thing goes for Janet's family, she keeps saying a lot of good things about Joe to her family.
The things Joe's family like about Janet concern what Joe said, she is very caring, hardworking, and friendly.
This led Joe's mother to ask his son to test his girlfriend if she could pass the test, if all he has said about her is true.
But mind you the mother did not mean anything bad, because here in Africa parents depend on their children.
I don't know about them living abroad, I have never traveled before (hahaha), but for us here in Sierra Leone, 95% of our parents depend on their children.
Nevertheless, Janet was invited by Joe's family to know her more if what he says about her is true.
Joe's siblings were not at home, they stayed away for the two-day, and Janet just came to live with Mom and Dad.
Mom pretends to be sick to see how hardworking or caring Janet, not the praise Joe gives about her.
Janet will sleep earlier and wake up very late, she only cares about how to take care of herself.
Even though Joe's mom pretends to be sick she will do all the housework, while Janet seats and watches her do everything.
Moreover, the two-day visit came to an end, and that is how she fails the test woefully.
Joe's mother got upset and did not approve of the relationship anymore.
If you were the mother or the parents, family member’s things like this happen, what would you do?
Please send your thoughts to the comment box.
Thank you for reading.