The things you do to others will always find a way of coming back to you, take note (#186).
Growing up in my community, I was a very bad boy who felt doing bad things made me feel good.
I was a very strong boy, I used my strength to hurt/bully my colleagues at school as well as at home.
When other parents report to my mom she will tell them that I was breastfeeding well, that is why I am strong, their children were not well breastfeeding.
But when these parents report to my dad he will flog the hell out of me, but mom will get angry with my dad.
My dad only stays at home once in a while due to the kind of job he does, my mom used to spend time with me when dad was not around encouraging bullying others.
All that time I thought my mom was the one who loved me a lot, not knowing that she was teaching me the wrong thing to do.
One day I was in school playing with my friends and all of a sudden I got angry with them all, I had to hit one of them with a hot punch in his face.
The principal told me he wanted to talk with my parents when coming the other day to school, I know since my dad didn't have time all he did was work.
My mom visited the principal at his office, the principal explained to my mom and told her if such act continued he would ask me out of school.
My mom patiently waited after the principal explained, as a mom your child has done such an evil act all you need to do is apologize.
But not my mommy, instead she started defending me instantly, and they went into a serious argument with the principal.
She became very adamant the principal had no choice but to ask the security to take her out of the school environment.
The principal asked to see my dad, and if he did not go to see him, the disciplinary action he was going to take I should stay home as much as I wanted.
That same week my dad came home, I was so afraid to tell him, but I picked up the courage and told him that the principal had asked to see him.
I did not tell him what I did or the trouble my mom had caused but he already knew I had caused trouble again.
Dad has to visit the principal at his office, the principal wants to explain what happened and how Mom displayed her bad character.
Dad did not allow him to end, at once "Dad" started apologizing to the principal for everything "Mom" and I had cost him.
Dad ended up taking full responsibility for the boy I injured, and the principal was pleased with the gentle attitude of my dad.
The following academic when school reopened there was this newly admitted boy who came from the province.
This boy was very strong but he was a very cool and calm person most of my friends tried to be friends with him, he was friendly and easy to be with very different from me.
I was very jealous, I tried to be that calm person (haha) for the first time in my life, I was afraid to fight him because I did not have his strength.
I was warned by the principal in front of my dad that if I fought again I would leave school, and never return to that school.
I tried many ways to fight this boy, I wanted the fault to come on his side but this boy was too nice and brilliant.
Then one day he was passing in front of me with my friends who avoided me because of this new boy.
I have to place my foot in his way he steps on me that is how I get my violent opportunity to fight him (evil thought).
We fought for a long time but this boy was very strong, even stronger than me, he hit me so many times.
He removed one of my teeth, I called my mom she came to fight but this boy's mom is crazier than my mom.
We both ended up having suspension letters from the principal's office, and Mom took me home to take care of my wounds and pain.
Since then I have stopped fighting, I realize that my mom is not a good tutor my dad was a good one.
I started listening to my dad instead of my mom, also saw dad as my best teacher and my mentor.
My advice for everyone to stop bullying people if not one day you get the worst bully in life, learn to be calm, and be friendly with people.
You see the evil things you do to others will find a way to come back to you.
Thanks for reading.
Have a nice weekend.