"If a dog bit you and you bit the dog too you both are dogs"
You see today in life people don't forgive and forget easily because of the painful thing they go through for another person selfishness, wicked behaviours or hurtful words we do say or act to people who show us so much love and care but what we do is make them lost trust in us.
You see trust is what is hard to achieve back when someone lost your trust finally, there are things we do to people is really hard to let go when you keep remembering how you trust or how precious the person is to you, how much you have sacrificed, you do things that you can't even do for yourself.
Let me tell you a true story about two good friends who care and love each other so much that when one passes by you will see the other coming behind, they eat together, wear the same clothes, shoe, sleep and do other things in common.
You will never see any difference between the two sides they love each other so much, they never share their angry outside they quarrel and solve it as brothers, some people got jealous of them because of the love and trust they share together as friends.
People never know they were friends they think they were blood brothers, they were an example to so many people in their community, they change so many lives of young people through their behaviour to each other.
One day the elder one gets employment they were so happy because things were not for them financially so when that opportunity came they were excited about it.
He starts job immediately and that job brings so many smiles to their faces, at the list they can put food on the table when the elder one goes for work the younger one take good care of the house, the younger one cooks food and people start calling the younger one "Aminata" hahaha.
That was real fun he always smiles about it, one day a DV program came up, the elder one hard about it and as his friend to play maybe he might be lucky to be a winner but said he can't he try very hard to convince him to play, later he was able to make him understand the importance of it they both play together.
One year later the results came out but they never check for the result, one day the younger one received a phone call that, he has win DV to travel to the US, he was shocked, the following week he went for a successful interview and finally they grant him a visa to the state.
They were both happy about it at the end they start crying they are going to miss each other so badly, he makes so many promises to his friends and promises never to forget everything they share together especially the struggle they both went through, the care the elder one gave him, finally he went to the state.
At first, when he went to the state they communicate frequently at time goes on communication less between them, he starts giving excuses finally he forget about his friend, the thing gets rough for his friend to lose his job, but he never gives up on his friend living in the state, always remember him in his prayer.
After 5 years he saw an international call guess who the person is, his own personal friend asking forgiveness for not keeping to his promises, the elser's friend said to him I have nothing against you, you are still my favourite friend and you will always be, I will not do evil for evil.
"1 Peter 3:9 not returning evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, blessing, knowing that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing".
"1Thessalonians 5:15 Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else".
If someone treats you with hate return it with love because if you return the hate with hate there is no difference between the both of you.
Forget does that hurt you and pray for them all, if they bit you don't bit them again, the life we live today we live by example and don't hate someone because we all hurt each in a different way no one is perfect.
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